So I'm in a position I've never been in before. Basically a dude and I have been in intimate situations twice, though we had sex only one of those times. The first time it happened I didn't really know him that well but by the second time I had spent enough time with him to actually grow a bit fond of him. I honestly don't think I got attached to him because of the sex the first time, though. But even though I'm interested I can't really read him. I don't spend a whole lot of time with him since he doesn't live near me but when we are together there's a lot of obvious chemistry. But like I said, I can't get a read on what it all means to him. I'm seeing him again this weekend and I'm thinking of asking him how he feels if we end up sleeping together again. But is this even a good idea? Is sleeping together a few times and a bit of chemistry not enough to go on? And if I should say something, how should I even approach it?
Yes, I am aware that I am thinking about this WAY too much. But any outside perspective is appreciated.