Also, what's on the menu?
we usually have baked ham and turkey, cornbread dressing, mashed potatoes, brown gravy, giblet gravy, mac and cheese, cranberry sauce, green beans/green bean casserole, corn, rolls, deviled eggs, then pecan and pumpkin pies for dessert. we usually have several people come to celebrate at our house. and though it's always a big dinner it's never formal. the guys hang out and eat on the couch while watching football and the women hang around in the kitchen or watch football too.