"If you can't be with the one you love, honey -- love the one you're with," means:
a) don't treat someone like shit just because you have/had eyes for someone else b) be responsible to your partner no matter what c) settle d) if you're not in a relationship, love yourself e) gee, Ari, I've always thought it actually meant [FILL IN THE BLANK]
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